It was a fitting first day of the season for me to talk about springtime decluttering with Dan Burritt (subbing for Michele Eliot) of BC Today. We covered a few of the issues surrounding decluttering and downsizing.
A clear space promotes a clear mind. If our space is filled with clutter and we can’t see the floor, we don’t know what items we have. Searching for what we need becomes stressful. When we declutter, it’s easier to function in the space.
Dan asked me, “People of a “certain vintage” are downsizing to a smaller home. How do we start the process?” Of course, decluttering is the first step. I explained that it takes at least one week to declutter for every decade an individual has lived in their home. People accumulate possessions throughout their lives. Now, they must divest themselves of these signs of a life well-lived. It can be challenging because there can be many emotions attached to specific items. However, people should rejoice and reclaim the memories they created when purchasing and using the items.
Kids Don’t Want Their Parents’ Stuff. Now What?
Often, kids don’t want their parents’ stuff. (I have a presentation based on that topic.) Younger generations don’t want to polish silverware. They don’t want dishes that won’t go in the dishwasher or microwave. They often live in smaller homes, so they have no space for the china cabinet – even if it was hand-carved and shipped from Italy.
Sometimes, more than one child wants the same family heirloom. In that case, I suggest parents specify in their will who is entitled to which item – especially if those possessions are expensive artwork, jewelry, or antiques.
During my session on BC Today, several listeners called or emailed to ask questions. Two questions were about dealing with old books. Unfortunately, you can’t recycle many books, but there are donation options for books in good condition. Read more about decluttering and organizing books and book collections.
Another caller suggested inviting family and friends over and letting them choose items they want. Of course, I agreed with the caller! A downsizing party is a great way to divest your unneeded belongings and celebrate a new chapter in your life.
Tips for Springtime Decluttering
At the end of the segment, I provided my best tips for springtime decluttering.
- Start small. Thinking about decluttering the entire house can be overwhelming. Instead, chose a small area and work for 15-30 minutes per day.
- Celebrate the wins. Set a goal, such as clearing one closet. Once you complete it, reward yourself, but not by shopping. Watch a movie or treat yourself to a fancy dessert.
- Work with a buddy. Sometimes, working with a body double or accountability buddy is helpful. You can support each other through the downsizing process. Read more of my tips on working with a friend to declutter and organize.
For more information about decluttering and downsizing, or to get some hands-on help, contact Out of Chaos for a consultation.
Listen to the interview on CBC Radio or watch the YouTube video.