A large part of my job includes helping homeowners downsize from a larger home to a smaller one. My team and I often edit through their life collections and uncover beautiful gifts and purchases never used (and sometimes never even opened). As they look at their items and decide what to do with them, there is often a sigh as they remember the special occasion when they received the gift. Many times there is a dawn of realization and regret that they hadn’t enjoyed them more. If I ask why some of their life collections weren’t used, homeowners often give these reasons.

“They’re too expensive or too fancy.”

Maybe that silver tea service is a bit much for a casual lunch, but make an effort to create celebrations to use it more than once a year. If you’re a grandparent, your grandchildren will remember those times you made them feel special when you brought out the expensive silverware and shared it with them.

“I was saving it for special company.”

All guests can be special, not to mention you are as well! Haul out that fine china and crystal for Sunday dinner and create memories. Big platters, tiered trays and punch bowls are great for get-togethers. Throw a party with your life collections! There’s no point in holding on to something, hoping it will be passed down and appreciated by other family members. These items won’t hold the same fond memories for them.

“It’s too much work to clean.”

Granted, some items do take a bit of work to clean. We love our dishwashers and the thought of regularly washing delicate items by hand can be daunting. I suggest if the item is something decorative you enjoy looking at, keep it. If it is something you wouldn’t miss, give it away or sell it so it can be enjoyed by someone else.

Enjoy time with family and friends and create lasting memories with your life collections. Go use the good dishes! What are you waiting for?